Ever been in a relationship where you felt like you were giving more than the other person? Constantly showering him or her with endless affection and you're met with not even the bare minimum? I always hear people say they want 50/50 in a relationship. That means you're only giving half of you. And when the other person slacks you're taking over their share as well. To me, that's not enough. I want 100/100. All of you. Because I'm not around for all the nonsense. If it is a relationship you actually want to go somewhere, you will do every and anything in your power to make sure that happens.
Unfortunately some people like this game. It's kind of like you go to work all day, from 9 to 5. Come home dead tired only to find your significant other chilling on the couch watching television. The house is a mess and dinner isn't even attempted. So as the person who shows love all the time, or in this case work all the time, you clean the house and cook dinner. All the while being tired. They don't ask you if you need any help or anything. That right there is just trifling. You're doing your share and theirs. Some pathetic people like this. The whole catering to your woman or man ordeal. I dont have a problem with catering, but some stuff isn't catering worthy.
I'm not even saying tell each other you love one another 50 a minute. I'm saying the enthusiasm and love should come off of one another like your favorite perfume. When one is having a bad day and the other listens, the same should occur when the shoe is on the other foot. When one partakes in an event, the other should be there. Front row. And when its switched, the supporter shouldn't be let down because the other partner is self absorbed.
When it all boils down, in relationships there should be mutual feelings and support. No one should be giving more than the other. And if you are and you think that's fine... You need Jesus.
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