What I Like About You

For the post, I asked multiple people what characteristics did they look for in a person in order to be attracted to them. I must admit, I received the most dumbest and shallowest responses I have EVER heard in my life. It made me come to the conclusion that people will either be in multiple short lasting relationships or single all of their life. Understandable, outer appearance really grabs your eyes first but looks does not cover their personality. Though some people don't mind them not having a personality. And these are the people who are remedial.

As for women, the majority of them stated that in order for one to catch her eye and remain interested, he must be: honest, family oriented, funny, sociable, communicable, concerned, SAVED (If not saved, then have some type of belief system), strong, confident, I N T E L L I G E N T, someone who makes her feel protected and spontaneous. Also one who is not afraid to admit he has feelings for you. He's not going around hiding how he feels. And as for men, I gathered that they want a woman who is: intelligent, family oriented, caring, outgoing, God fearing, level headed, humorous, a girly girl, submissive to an extent.

I'm not saying that you're about to find a guy or girl with all these qualities. God didn't make anyone that perfect. You're going to have to do without some of these things or work on them. Note, I didn't include attractive in the lists. I did that because it's evident that looks are accountable, but always remember that personality can make the most beautiful person ugly.