For one, you're just NOT HAPPY. You get aggravated and pissed off when you see their name flashing across your phone. They aren't giving you what you need, even when you ask for it. They can't take the time out of their schedule to send a text or make a phone call. They just don't reach out to communicate period. They act as if they don't want to be bothered by you, thus ignoring your messages or calls. Though they are steady updating their status or tweeting their little hearts away. Continuance of arguing. Don't get me wrong, arguing is healthy in a relationship, but if you're arguing then avoiding coming up with a solution or the situation all together, then that leads to a whole bunch of unhappiness. Constantly having excuses. "Excuses are the tools of the weak and incompetent used to build monuments out of nothingness. Those who use them will never accomplish anything." Enough said. Emotions are being hidden. How exactly do you think a relationship will go anywhere if how your feeling is a mystery? TRUST. Trust shouldn't and cannot just lie within one person. Trust has to be mutual. If you trust them but you're afraid that they may judge you, shut down or whatever the case may be, then you don't trust them. You find yourself the only one in the relationship. Mentally and emotionally that is. You're the only one fighting and defending the partnership. Giving your absolute all for something that the other person clearly doesn't give a care in the world about. Lastly, you're just tired. Fed up of doing circular motions. Going back and forth. Tired.
Now the real questions are, Do you want to stick around and try to change these things? Or are you done trying? Is this person worth the constant struggle? Every relationship is different and sometimes the problems are as well... Sometimes.
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