Previously I wrote a post entitled "Why Stay?", where I wrote about the signs in which one should leave a relationship. This post will be the opposite.
More than likely you've probably sat and asked yourself "Why do I stay?". You probably came to the conclusion that you love that person too much. May sound cliche and whatnot, but in many situations, it's the truth. You've invested so much time and energy and you honestly cannot picture yourself with any other person. May sound cliche also. But that's ok. You truly believe that things can be worked out and will try any and everything in your power so things can change. There's a saying that goes along the lines of "The couples that face the most, are often the strongest" or something like that. Bare with me. But yea, if you bail out after every argument or disagreement then you really didn't want to be in relationship. That's what relationships consist and are made of. No one said loving was going to be as easy as 1, 2, 3 or your ABC's. Otherwise every body could endure pain and hardships love bring.
More than likely you've probably sat and asked yourself "Why do I stay?". You probably came to the conclusion that you love that person too much. May sound cliche and whatnot, but in many situations, it's the truth. You've invested so much time and energy and you honestly cannot picture yourself with any other person. May sound cliche also. But that's ok. You truly believe that things can be worked out and will try any and everything in your power so things can change. There's a saying that goes along the lines of "The couples that face the most, are often the strongest" or something like that. Bare with me. But yea, if you bail out after every argument or disagreement then you really didn't want to be in relationship. That's what relationships consist and are made of. No one said loving was going to be as easy as 1, 2, 3 or your ABC's. Otherwise every body could endure pain and hardships love bring.
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