Own Tune. Own Moves.

Never envy someone else's relationship. Each relationship is different. The principles and foundations are different from the next one. Some relationships are built off sex. Others are leaning on emotional, mental and spiritual aspects. Everyone is different.
I say don't envy another relationship because while you're praying and hoping to be like the couple who hump like rabbits, they could be praying and wishing that they could be like yours. Not every relationship is perfect. It's not heard of. People say they want a commitment like Jay Z and Beyonce.... No. You want a commitment like your own. I hear on countless times how people wish they're relationship was like mine. Why? Follow your own heart, wants, and needs. Don't mimic ours. We're different people.
Don't feel pressured into establishing a level in your relationship by people outside of your relationship. Like sex for example. This brings me back to when I said, every relationship is different. They all are on different levels. Going at different speeds. Maybe one relationship isn't ready to take it there just yet. And it shouldn't matter how long they've been in a relationship. It's up to the people in the relationship. Two people. Besides, does sex make a relationship official or something? If so, that's retarded and so is any and everyone who back up that theory.
Though this aspect of each relationship should be the same: Respect. Your want and needs. I believe that every female is a Queen and should look for a King to treat her in that manner. And every man is a King and needs a Queen to treat him as such. No one should be treated like a village peasant. Unless you're a whore. Or a homewrecker. Other than that, you're the prize. And worth more than rubies(Chelsea =]). But vocalizing what it is that you want, is how you'll get respect and your desires granted. The way you carry yourself determines how respect will be reciprocated. This definitely shouldn't be envied because everyone should be treated this way by their significant other. And if they're not, someone in that mess of a relationship is crazy and I wouldn't want to try to duplicate anything they have.
Move to your own drum. Have your own requirements. Follow your own heart, mind, and soul.

Red Light. Red Light. Green Light!

Why can't people be straight up with their feelings? Constantly giving off different emotions; confusing themselves and the person of interest. Feelings are so easy to expression. While you're expressing how much you hate him or her, you can be putting that energy into expressing how you feel towards developing a relationship. So with that being said, I broke it down to 3 signals: Green light, red light, yellow light.
Green light: This is the signal that is given when one is ready to love and be loved in return. No playing around. No "Maybe I like/love you". With this signal you have given the go that you are going to show all affection and let down all walls. You're ready to be upfront.
Yellow light: You're doing the most but still not doing anything. Flirting and leading one on with the sign of taking things serious are near, but on the other hand, so is not taking things serious. This is the confusing stage. And is often where one party is too attached for the bullcrap. The "pending" party is taking too long to fulfill anything. It's very simple: Do you want to be with that person or not? Red light: You're just not doing anything. I don't even know why people even sit there entertaining the ground move. There's absolutely no signal. So you're wasting your time. So which light are you at? leading