Why can't people be straight up with their feelings? Constantly giving off different emotions; confusing themselves and the person of interest. Feelings are so easy to expression. While you're expressing how much you hate him or her, you can be putting that energy into expressing how you feel towards developing a relationship. So with that being said, I broke it down to 3 signals: Green light, red light, yellow light.
Green light: This is the signal that is given when one is ready to love and be loved in return. No playing around. No "Maybe I like/love you". With this signal you have given the go that you are going to show all affection and let down all walls. You're ready to be upfront.
Yellow light: You're doing the most but still not doing anything. Flirting and leading one on with the sign of taking things serious are near, but on the other hand, so is not taking things serious. This is the confusing stage. And is often where one party is too attached for the bullcrap. The "pending" party is taking too long to fulfill anything. It's very simple: Do you want to be with that person or not?
Red light: You're just not doing anything. I don't even know why people even sit there entertaining the ground move. There's absolutely no signal. So you're wasting your time.
So which light are you at? leading
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Red Light. Red Light. Green Light!
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I absolutely love this post... I see this mostly towards the guys though because as we all know females have a better time expressing how they feel. We're often more willing to put our feelings on the line if we have the slightest thought that their feeling the same! But it's also true that we, many times, wear our hearts on our sleeves. My situation right now puts me at the confusing yellow light. It's a " I hear you talking but I don't see anything happenening". It's like you only have two options.. Show and move or it's time to move along.. Ya know?!
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